June 15, 2008
Rev. Kip Gilts

      


 "Kids of the Scriptures"  
Daddy's Girl
Mark 5:21-43
 

           

Twelve years is a long time.  Twelve years ago I was in Pattison, Texas, a town only about an hour’s drive from here, but a town that I would guess many of you have never been to.  I believe it was the only place where my son ever ran away from home.  He ran all the way across town to the church office, about two and a half blocks.  His mother was scared to death and he was in a bit of trouble when he got home.  Of course, he was only five years old, twelve years ago.  Twelve years is a long time.
 

Every Father’s Day I play that game.  I think back on Father’s Days in the past and remember how old the kids were then.  I don’t know if they had an equivalent to Father’s Day in first century Palestine, but I am sure if they did one man was reflecting on years past, going all the way back to twelve years earlier.  His name was Jairus, the president of the synagogue, and his daughter was a Daddy’s girl.  He was waiting with so many others when Jesus got out of the boat, returning from the East side of the Sea of Galilee.  We find his story in Mark 5, where his story is interrupted by another story that is twelve years old.  Hear now the Word of the Lord in Mark 5:21-43:
 

21When Jesus had crossed again in the boat to the other side, a great crowd gathered around him; and he was by the sea. 22Then one of the leaders of the synagogue named Jairus came and, when he saw him, fell at his feet 23and begged him repeatedly, “My little daughter is at the point of death. Come and lay your hands on her, so that she may be made well, and live.”

24So he went with him. And a large crowd followed him and pressed in on him. 25Now there was a woman who had been suffering from hemorrhages for twelve years. 26She had endured much under many physicians, and had spent all that she had; and she was no better, but rather grew worse. 27She had heard about Jesus, and came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, 28for she said, “If I but touch his clothes, I will be made well.” 29Immediately her hemorrhage stopped; and she felt in her body that she was healed of her disease. 30Immediately aware that power had gone forth from him, Jesus turned about in the crowd and said, “Who touched my clothes?” 31And his disciples said to him, “You see the crowd pressing in on you; how can you say, ‘Who touched me?’” 32He looked all around to see who had done it. 33But the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came in fear and trembling, fell down before him, and told him the whole truth. 34He said to her, “Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace, and be healed of your disease.”

35While he was still speaking, some people came from the leader’s house to say, “Your daughter is dead. Why trouble the teacher any further?” 36But overhearing what they said, Jesus said to the leader of the synagogue, “Don’t fear, only believe.” 37He allowed no one to follow him except Peter, James, and John, the brother of James. 38When they came to the house of the leader of the synagogue, he saw a commotion, people weeping and wailing loudly. 39When he had entered, he said to them, “Why do you make a commotion and weep? The child is not dead but sleeping.” 40And they laughed at him. Then he put them all outside, and took the child’s father and mother and those who were with him, and went in where the child was. 41He took her by the hand and said to her, “Talitha cum,” which means, “Little girl, get up!” 42And immediately the girl got up and began to walk about (she was twelve years of age). At this they were overcome with amazement. 43He strictly ordered them that no one should know this, and told them to give her something to eat.   

 

The Word of God for the people of God.  Thanks be to God. 

           In this passage Mark related to his readers the power one moment had on two twelve year old stories.  I wonder if these two daughters ever met each other.  I hope so.  I think it would have been great for them to get together and remember the day that Jesus came to town.  I can imagine them visiting over a cup of coffee and Jairus joining in the conversation, “He only spoke four words to me that day.  He said, “Don’t fear, only believe.’”   On this Father’s day, I want to take you to that day.  I want to invite you to hear those four words and all that they imply.  For these words are no longer just for an anxious father in first century Palestine, they are your and they are mine – Father’s Day gifts from a loving God - Don’t fear, only believe.  These words inform us that…

 

Jesus Knows

          IJesus knew a lot about this man and his anxiety.  He knew a lot about the woman who snuck in the crowd for a healing.  He knew their story.  That is obvious from his reaction.  Jairus comes to him almost as soon as he is stepping out of the boat.  Jesus is his only hope.  He falls at the teacher’s feet and begs him to come to his house, lay his hands upon the sick girl, and heal her from the mysterious illness that is threatening her life.  Jesus does not enter into any kind of dialogue with the man, he doesn’t ask the man what’s wrong with her, how long has she been sick, he just starts walking.  The crowd that had already assembled started to follow – very closely.  Can’t you imagine them hollering out, “He is going to work a miracle.  Hurry up!  You have to see this.”  The crowd closes in even closer and they move almost as one when out of the shadows sneaks a woman who has been sick for twelve years.  She too has confidence in Jesus’ healing power, plus she has run out of options.  She has tried every cure known to man at the time.  One commentator recorded that the contemporary cures were to drink a concoction of rubber, alum, and ground up crocuses.  Quite frankly that sounds more like a potion to stop a radiator leak.  Another prescription was to drink onions, wine, and repeat a medicinal incantation.  Other doctors tried shocking the patient,   Nothing worked and for twelve years she was ostracized as unclean, guilt ridden for being unfit, sick and tired of being sick and tired, and finally penniless and hopeless. 

          IIt happens all the time, these scenarios of desperation and human efforts to fix the problem.  I am always amazed at the breadth of knowledge of remedies for human suffering.  Have you ever had the hiccups?  Now I am not trying to compare a twelve minute bout with hiccups to the twelve year ordeal experienced by the woman in this story, but stick with me on this one.  I have had the hiccups and I have received several prescriptions – hold your breath, breathe into a sack, eat a teaspoon or table spoon of sugar, have someone scare you, and my favorite (which I do the most often) drink water backwards from a glass (That one works about half the time).  I am sure that all of these have worked for lots of people or they wouldn’t have the circulation that they do.  However, if I have the hiccups and none of these work I become more and more frustrated.  As I mentioned, sometimes they can last for twelve minutes.

          IWe don’t do this just for hiccups.  I have heard people try to prescribe cures for cancer, cures for grief, cures for anger over traumas in the past.  We do this so often, we offer advice when understanding is most sought.  I am confident that the first gift that Jesus gave to the anxious father and the hopeless woman was the gift of understanding – Jesus knows.  Can you imagine how many prescribed remedies this woman received after twelve years?  Can you imagine the hopelessness and confusion that she felt? But guess what – Jesus knew.  Jesus knew the hurt of this woman and the heart of this father.  This is too important to race past, because I am certain that many of you are in a valley of your own – it may be anxiety, it may be illness, it may be past hurts that won’t go away, it may be a hundred different things and perhaps even the ones living with you are unaware of its power in your life.  Jesus knows.  He walks with you as if you are Jairus pleading for help.  He stops for you as if you are a woman seeking something that has evaded you for twelve years.  And somewhere in the chaos of the crowd you hear four words that can completely change your life, Don’t fear, only believe.  It is this stopping on the trail that unveiled the second gift of this story.

 

Jesus Cares

          IApparently the woman had heard enough about Jesus or was at such a point of desperation that she was confident that if she could just touch the clothes of the holy one, she would be made well.  So she risked the shame and disgrace of an unclean woman milling among the clean and accepted people to get to the man in the middle of the crowd.  She reached through all the people and got it.  She touched the hem of his robe and immediately felt whole.  She hadn’t felt that good in twelve years and twelve years is a long time.  Then something strange happened.  Jesus stopped and looked around, “Who touched my clothes?”  The disciples thought it was a joke with everyone pressing in so tightly, hundreds of people probably had touched his clothes.  This was different. 

          II am sure that Jairus was saying to himself, “Who cares?! Can’t we hurry?  She is getting worse.  I know it.  We need to hurry!”  But Jesus never seems to be in a hurry.  He knew that the healing was not yet complete.  The woman had been restored physically, but there was still something else she desperately needed.  If she got away now, she might promote some kind of superstition about Jesus’ magic clothes.  He made it clear that it was not the clothes, but the Christ that possessed the power.  Besides, there was more healing to be done.

“Who touched me?” and he kept looking into the crowd with eyes of expectancy.  He was not leaving until he found her.  When she stepped forward and told him her story he said something to her that he is not recorded as having said to anyone else.  He said to this woman – this one who had suffered so much for so long, this one who had felt so all alone for twelve years- he called her “Daughter”!  “Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace, and be healed of your disease.”

          IFrederick Beuchner wrote of once being at a Christmas Eve Mass in Rome.  He said as the Pope was making his way through the thong of people he kept looking.  Beuchner was sure that he was looking for Christ that night, as if in one of those faces he would see Jesus.  His eyes were so piercing and his gaze so focused that Beuchner himself started looking for Jesus.

          IIn today’s story it is not one looking for Jesus, it is Jesus looking for one.  He is looking for the one who has been hurting, the one whose private pain has isolated that person for a long time.  He is looking because Jesus knows and Jesus cares

          IHowever, in the midst of this touching story where he not only heals the woman of her physical ailment, but also restores her soul with that tender word, “daughter”, another daughter died.  People came to Jairus and said it was too late.  The girl for whom he had sought help was dead.  Again the assurance that Jesus cares is made evident.  I can imagine him cupping the man’s face in his hands, blocking out the expressions of the crowd and the anguish of his own heart.  I can imagine Jesus’ eyes locking on the father as he did earlier on the woman.  That is when he offered the only words recorded that he spoke directly to the man, “Don’t fear, only believe.  Then he offered the third Father’s Day present…

 

Jesus Can

          I“Where there is breath there is hope” is an old adage, and it seemed to be even popular in Jesus’ day.  Where there is breath, a touch of the savior can infect others with health and purity.  The crowd had already seen this in the case of the woman who had been dreadfully sick for years.  But now it was too late.  The professional mourners had already assembled at the ruler’s home.  There was high shrill screaming, clapping of the hands, playing of flutes, antiphonal singing, and other rituals being performed to let the entire community know that there had been a death in the house.  The crowd that had been around Jesus at the sea had dissipated.  Perhaps they thought it was too late or perhaps they simply heeded Jesus’ instructions that no one was to cross the line that led to the road to Jairus’ home.  So Peter, James, John, Jairus, and Jesus got to the house where Jesus told the group of mourners that they were a bit premature.  They knew death.  It was their vocation.  It was what they did.  They mocked the naïve itinerant teacher from Nazareth.  He simply went into the room and closed out all the mourners.  With just the three disciples, two parents, one savior, and a lifeless child in the room, Jesus went over to the little girl, took her hands in his and gently said, “Little girl, get up.”  Only he said it in a language that she would understand, “Talitha cum!”  And she did, and she was twelve years old.  I am quite certain that this was the best Father’s Day present ever.

          II wonder if they ever got together.  I wonder if that little girl who had lived for the same amount of years that the woman had been sick ever got together and compared how their stories of twelve years were changed in that one day.  I wonder if Jairus joined them and said, “He only spoke four words to me that day.  He said, ‘Don’t fear, only believe.’”

          IThat’s who we are today.  We are people that have come together, fought traffic, navigated through a construction zone, and got together right here in the sanctuary to worship one who has assured us through stories and life experiences that Jesus knows, Jesus cares, and Jesus can.  How many of us have stories where we could say, “He only spoke four words to me that day.  He said, ‘Don’t fear, only believe.’”    

 


 

        

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